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Frequently Asked Questions
When you’re thinking about finding someone to talk to and help you with any problems you feel you might have, it’s common to have loads of questions. I’ve gathered together some of the most common ones for you to have a read through. If you want to ask a question I haven’t cover here please get in touch.
What's the difference between counselling and psychotherapy?
Counselling can take place individually, in couples or in groups depending on your needs or what you feel most comfortable with.
In Psychotherapy the focus is on a deeper level, a process that can painful, but will ultimately lead to more personal happiness and healthier relationships. The aim is to build self-awareness, compassion, understanding, respect, empathy and acceptance towards yourself and others.
Will seeing a therapist help me?
How long will I need to attend?
This depends on your individual needs and preferences. I usually suggest we work together for six sessions which gives me time to hear your story and then review the work.
Provided I consider it to be in your best interest, you can choose how long we work together. I will not encourage you to stay longer than necessary.
What days do you see clients?
I am available Monday to Friday. As my practice room is at my address, I can sometimes offer flexible appointments. I offer evening appointments on Monday to Thursday. I am not available at the weekend.
How frequent/long are the sessions?
Sessions for individuals and couples last 60 minutes. The frequency of sessions will be agreed depending on the need and what feels right for you. However, weekly sessions are recommended especially at the initial stages.
What if I can't keep an appointment will I have to pay?
If you are unable to keep an appointment, please telephone or message me as soon as you can. If you give less than 24 hours’ notice of a cancellation or do not attend an agreed session the normal fee for the session is payable.
Is what I say treated in confidence?
Yes, what you say is treated in confidence. There are some circumstances in which there are limits to confidentiality related to risk. For instance, if I felt you presented a serious risk of harm to yourself or to others I am bound by a duty of care to inform the relevant authorities.